Carol
Dweck’s book Mindset lays out some
interesting ideas about the way we perceive success and failure. She says that
we can have either a fixed mindset or a growth mindset. In a fixed mindset, when
we fail at something, it means that we ourselves are failures. Clearly this
idea is not conducive to learning and performing at a high level. In a growth
mindset, however, failure is simply an opportunity to learn, grow, and be
better in the future.
I’m
tutoring a 9th grader right now in executive functioning,
incorporating Dweck’s Mindset principles. Since beginning work on the Mindset curriculum, my student has made great strides in
preparing for tests, advocating for himself and asking for help from teachers
and other students. He now knows that when he succeeds, he should celebrate his
success and move on to the next challenge. When he fails, he knows now to
dissociate himself from the failure so that he may objectively examine his
mistakes and correct them in the future. After all, did Michael Jordan
make every shot he took? Of course not! He had to fail in order to learn from
his mistakes and correct them.
Basketball
has been a really great access point for my student to absorb the Mindset principles. He loves basketball,
and his favorite team is the North Carolina Tar Heels. I asked if he thought he
could get there, and though he replied yes, I could sense some doubt on his
part. We then proceeded to draw a sort of goal tree. At the top of the tree was
the goal of making the team at North Carolina. We then drew branches to show
what he would need to do to get there: which skills and sub-skills he would
have to develop both academically and athletically. Completing that exercise
helped him break down a larger goal into more manageable tasks. It’s no longer
a matter of being good enough to make the team – it’s about working as hard as
possible to achieve a goal.
The Mindset curriculum is an
excellent tool for students because it shows them that what they do wrong does
not define them. They can change their opinions and propel themselves forward
in school and in life if they equip themselves with the proper mindset.